Thursday, July 28, 2011

Crazy Kids...

So, sometimes the days of summer are long... and a kid has to get creative.  My kids have performed some silly antics this summer...

One day, we came home and Ally announced she was bored. This usually sends me into a fit of anger.  For some reason, nothing pisses me off more than my child telling me she is bored in a house full of toys hand chosen by her....  obviously none of them are acceptable in this moment...  so, instead.... she heads to the recycling bin and she and Luke make robots....



You have GOT to love the Bacardi bottle.  :-))))))))

Other days, Luke dresses himself up in his and Ally's old Halloween costumes.  I have come home multiple times to Luke dressed in his Frog costume..... and then, the latest obsession is Ally's "Punky Duck."

Life as a little boy must just be too ordinary... much more fun to be a frog or a duck....  :-)

Then, there's Ally.......



She's just a looney girl.  :-))))))

And, let's not forget the day the kids put the ladder against the porch and decided to climb for fun....


Never a dull moment around here....  and we wouldn't have it any other way!!!

Wednesday, July 27, 2011

Kids' Collections....

Anyone who really knows me, knows I don't like to keep stuff around my house for long. I despise the build up of clutter. I detest a houseful of random crap we don't really need or use.  I hate feeling overwhelmed in my own home. Some people are really good at taking those things, and putting them away in a neat, organized fashion, and saving them for when they might need them again.

Not me.

I want stuff out.  Kids outgrew clothes... I want them gone.  My friend Kristen knows this well.... take it now, or it might not be around to take!  ;-)  If I don't wear something anymore... it finds a new home with a friend or Goodwill..... it's just how I roll..........

So, as I was cleaning the other day... I found a Zhu-Zhu pet!  And then... I found a Silly Band..... and it got me thinking about the many things my kids collect in  phases. How much they love these things and need more of them, when they are popular and fun... and how quickly they get thrown by the wayside when they are done with them!!!!!!!

I started making a mental list of all the types of things we have loved and let go in the McIntosh household:
  • Zhu Zhu Pets
  • Silly Bandz
  • Barbies
  • Cabbage Patch Dolls
  • American Girl Dolls (Ally will still kind  of play... but I fear these VERY expensive dolls and their more expensive accessories are going the way of the dinosaur in our house!)
  • Junie B Jones Books (Ally is so over the series)
  • Nintendo DS and Games
  • Stickers
  • Scrapbook supplies (this was recent, maybe Ally will get back into it, but right now, there it all sits!)
I'm sure there are more... but those are the things that come to mind...  and I envision a future of many, many more loved and obessessed over items.. that we will "have to have" and then discard all too quickly.......

I could go two ways with this..... I could look at the waste and feel frustration... or I could let it go... cuz I think I am built the same way.  I was probably like this as a kid.  I am like this now. I just collect different things.  Jeans. Shoes.  Purses. And I am done with them... and I get rid of them... and I move on.  I don't get too attached to too many things.... there are very few items that hold true sentimental value for me... and those things I will never let go... but most things are just things... and I am fine saying goodbye.....

So, I let it go... and as I place the beloved Zhu Zhu into the bag for Goodwill... I smile and recall the joy that it once brought to Ally's face... and that is enough.... I don't need to hang on to the annoying little rat.  ;-))))

Sunday, July 24, 2011

Fourth of July Fun....

I have to post some pics from our Fourth of July fun for my Grandma!!!  So, Baci... here you go!!!!!






Friday, July 22, 2011

Today....

Sometimes I am in awe of how well my children play together. Today is one of those days and I am grateful. Their age difference doesn't matter. Their gender difference doesn't exist. They are just two kids playing the day away indoors until we can get to the pool. In the meantime, they have had to exude patience while Mommy showers and dresses for an afternoon and night out.... And attempts to clean up around here. In their haste to have fun, the attempt at cleaning is futile.... But I care very little while I smile listening to them.

They have played dress up... Built a fort... Recorded themselves singing songs... And are currently doing gymnastics. Ally is one hell of a teacher when she wants to be. She digs up her patience and Luke basks in her attention.

Today is a very good day. :-)


-- Post From My iPhone

Hatteras 2011....

So.... I've been to Hatteras with my hubby's family a few times in my life now.  Once or twice before we were married.  Once before kids.  We took Ally when she was 18 months... and then didn't go again until Luke was 6 months, 18 months, and this year, when he is 3 1/2. This has been, by far, the best trip yet!  The previous two times we went were challenging, at best.  Luke hated the sand, the ocean, wasn't a huge fan of the pool yet.. deposed the heat.... and wouldn't' sleep AT ALL!!!!!!!  This year, he seems to be just old enough that he could enjoy the beach, the pool and be okay with sleeping in a strange bed so long as he knew were we were!!

Even the flight was PERFECT!!!!!  He was so excited about everything. About getting on the plane, buckling his own seatbelt, looking out the window... and he even watched as we took off.  We stayed busy, even though it was only a one and a half hour flight.  He loved the snacks and juice the flight attendant brought.  We colored and played tic tac toe.  And we looked out the window at the sights,  A LOT!!!!  He was ecstatic as we landed in Norfolk because there were "Cranky the Cranes" all over... and he was enthralled with all the buildings.  It was adorable.  Always a joy to watch something through his eyes.

We got our rental car and got out of the airport in record time.  Things were going SO well.... until we hit some nasty traffic trying to get on the island.  What should have been a 2 1/2 - 3 hour drive... became a 5 1/2 hour drive... cuz we inched to get on and over the bridge.  Tensions were high in the car my friend.  Scott tried his hardest to make light of the situation, but Ally was losing her shit. We told jokes.  Gave dollars to the person who could do the best fake cry, fake puke, and fake laugh.  Still, it was a rough go until we got through the traffic and onto the island....

Then, once the kids could see the dunes and realized we were getting close, they were beyond excited.... and all smiles.  That last hour (after we all stopped for a potty break and some food!) were a blast!  A lot of fun anticipation and excitement in the air.  :-)

We were the second "wave" to arrive at the cottage.  My father and brother in law (who drove down) made it first, checked in and unloaded all our bags.  Adam even greeted me at the door with a much deserved margarita!!!!  Let the fun begin!!!!!!!!

The kids were off... bathing suits were put on... and they were in the pool instantly.  My brother in law and his two kids, Natalie and Even arrived not long after us... and then my mother in law, Jane, Grace and the twins brought up the rear!  We were all there!!!!!!

We ordered pizza that first night... got the kids down... enjoyed drinks in the hot tub (one of my very favorite parts of Hatteras - drinking with my hubby and his sibs)... and let the games begin!!!

A typical day was, arise far too early... man the kids woke up early down there!  Have a wonderful huge breakfast.... and hit the beach before it go too hot.  Luke was amazing in the ocean.  He really loved it this time - at least at first.  If he got water in his mouth, he wasn't a fan. And the sand that stuck to his feet... well, he always wanted me to "get it off!"  So, there were some low points.  But, he was a thousand percent better this year than previous years... so I will take it!!!!!!!

We would head back... take a dip in the pool... and then head up for lunch.... then, kids and adults alike would have some "rest time."  Which meant, actual naps for the kids... and drinking, swimming, and reading time for us adults!!!!!  The kids would get up... and we were back in the pool for the day, until it was time to shower and get ready for happy hour and dinner.... then, sometimes, back in the pool after dinner... or trips to get ice cream.... or back to the beach to crab hunt.... or game playing in the cottage.

The cottage had an elevator and the kids loved it.  All five of the bigger kids would ride up and down.. or just sit in it and play school. They all played together so well.  It was great for Ally to have so much time with her cousin Natalie, who is her cousin closest to her in age.  Natalie will be six next month.  Ally took on the role of "biggest cousin" very well and thoroughly enjoyed being the boss of them.  :-)

She did need her alone time now and then.... so she and I had an afternoon to ourselves once... we did some shopping and she picked out some souvenirs and I found some great jewelry at a local art gallery.  Another day, the four of us, went out to lunch and did some more shopping... so we had a good mix of family time, and just our family time.

Luke absolutely fell in love with swimming.  This summer, spending so much time at the pool at the club has made him more confident in water, but up to this point, it's been time in a "baby pool."  At Hatteras, he wore swimmies and learned how to swim independently with those!!!  A huge step for my timid little guy!!!

We did a family photo shoot on the beach again... I cannot wait to see how the pictures turned out!!!!  Jane always does an amazing job!!!!!  I'm sure she also got lots of candids of all the kids... and I can't wait to share her much better pics.... but in the meantime, I can share what I got.... which still captures the essence of our time there.  It was a great time.  A gorgeous house... full of lots of people we love... and everyone had such a nice time being together....  :-)



















Wednesday, July 20, 2011

You Are My Sunshine

Tonite Luke asked me to sing "The Sunshine Song" to him when I tucked him in. So, knowing what he meant, I sang "You Are My Sunshine". We sing this a lot. He knows most of the words. He listened to me at first... Then he joined in and sang with me. When the song ended, he reached up and gave me a hug and said goodnight. It's one of those moments I want to bottle and save forever. Bring it out in the moments I need to be lifted.

Writing it here is almost as good. I'm pretty sure I can look back at this post, read it and conjure up the feelings.

He is such a sweet boy. :)


-- Post From My iPhone

Wednesday, July 6, 2011

Fourth of July Weekend....

We had a GREAT long weekend!!!  Going into the long weekend knowing I only had two days of work this week was pretty awesome too....  ;-)

Saturday, my cousins Becky and Sarah came over for a cookout that turned into a "cook-in." Well, luckily Scott grilled the chicked before the torrential downpour... so we enjoyed some amazing chicken caesar salad and WINE indoors. Good old fashioned girl talk and a bottle of wine.  Good, good times........

Sunday, we made our way over to Somerset Mall early in the day. I had some returns and purchases to make at Anthro.... and we enjoyed lunch at California Pizza Kitchen... my kids fave by far.  :)  Afterwards we went to Scott's cousin Sarah's Surprise 30th birthday party... and had a nice afternoon visiting with some of his family that we rarely see.  His cousin lives in Commerce Township, but his aunt and uncle in Alabama... so it was nice to see them... and see Sarah's three boys.  Luke even ventured out, got brave and climbed a fence.  :-)

Monday... we went over to my aunt's, where all my family gathered for a good old fashioned American BBQ.... hot dogs... apple pie.... all the best in American fare.  :-)  The kids enjoyed a GIANT blow up water slide/pool that my uncle recently purchased... and let's be honest.... after a few margaritas, some adults really enjoyed it too.  ;-)

Ally had a sleepover at her friend Kennedy's... and had her first tubing on the lake experience.  She loved it..... and is excited to try knee-boarding next... as Kennedy promised that they would do that next time.  I love the experiences she is getting this summer.... it's been such a great time already!!!!!

Today is my "Friday" and I am off work for the next 11 days after today! HOORAY!!!!!  Saturday, we leave bright at early for our vacation to the Outer Banks with Scott's family.  We are staying in Buxton this year, near the lighthouse.  Our cottage is Native Sun.  Cannot wait..... think it's going to be a great time... and I am going into it with a positive attitude, since Luke has been hard to handle down there the last two times we've gone.  We did not go last summer... and I am hoping now he's old enough to enjoy more of what it has to offer.  Back then, he did not enjoy the beach... the sun.. and the pool was iffy.  ;-)  Great for a beach vaction in the heat.  :-)))))))

I am going to spend the next couple days doing laundry.... packing and getting any last minute items we need.  For some reason, this is the least stressed I've EVER been before this trip... or maybe any trip with my kids.  This will be the first time we go and I don't have to worry about diapers... or special cups or bottles... or any of it! I can just pack my kids clothes, some sunscreen and GO!  I am feeling great and loving this lighter burden of travel!!!

So..... next week will be quiet around blog land (Grandma!!!)... so don't expect any updates until after I return!  I will, however, try to post some pics from the Fourth.... and the "kids" playing on the water structure.  :-)

Saturday, July 2, 2011

Okay, Okay....

So the comment from my Grandma alone is enough to make me go on.  ;-)  I really wasn't gonna stop blogging all together... well, maybe.... I was just questioning it all I suppose.  No harm in questioning things now and then...  ;-)

Now I know I have a few faithful readers who would miss me if I were gone. So I shall stay.

And major love to all of you back for your super sweet and awesome comments!  I got some emails and private notes too.  Lots of love for the bloggy Nicole.  So you will get more of me I suppose.  Lucky you!!!  HA!

We have had an AWESOME week!!!!  An awesome week. Did I mention that Scott and I went to the U2 concert to kick the week off???  This past Sunday we saw U2 at Spartan Stadium and it was just awesome to see.  Perfect weather. Perfect venue. Always feels so good to be back on campus... even if so many things have changed that it makes me feel super old that my college campus looks nothing like it did when I went there!  UGH!  It was a fun night out for us... only marred ever slightly by Scott's illness.  :(

I pulled myself together to go to work Monday. Was seriously only half awake for the day. Declared "movie night" when I got home to get through the evening with the kids... and went to bed as soon as I put them to bed!

Tuesday, my twin nieces turned one... so we all went out to the pool to celebrate and have dinner. Too bad the weather didn't cooperate. It was a bit chilly and the kids didn't have as much fun as we had hoped, but we made the best of it.  Wednesday Ally had day camp and golf which she still loves - and yes, I picked up as happy a girl as I dropped off - so that was great!  :-)  I even skipped out of work a minute early to have coffee with my cousins... and some much needed girl talk.

Those same awesome cousins (Sarah and Becky) came out to the pool with us Thursday after gymnastics.  We had a great afternoon out there.. and I came home and made an amazing dinner of salmon, pasta and broccoli, which for some reason... Luke actually ATE.  :-)

Friday, my friend Kristen, her three week old and two year old, joined us at the pool... along with Ally's friend Quinn and we spent the entire day playing, swimming and sipping margaritas!  I was so proud of Kristen for venturing out!!!!  Quinn came home with us for a sleepover... and Scott grilled a yummy beef tenderloin which we enjoyed with some wine on the deck while Ally and her friend happily and independently played Life... then, Luke and I watched Curious George and we all fell asleep....

Today.. I spent the morning at Divinity getting a pedicure.... lovely!  I am home alone now, enjoying some solitude as Scott took all the kids to see Cars 2.... and I am catching up on tons of laundry and anticipating my cousins' visit this evening... we shall grill out... sit on the deck and enjoy a tasty beverage and catch up.

I freakin' love summer.  :-)